In February, yoga teachers (present company included) often emphasize heart opening poses -- to stretch the physical chest as well as to open the energetic heart to connection, compassion, and loving kindness. Openness is beautiful; but the heart is not meant to be unguarded at all times. It is meant to be balanced.
Balance plays a part in every yoga practice. The inhale expands; the exhale contracts. The spine arches and then rounds. We stretch one side, then the other. Strength supports flexibility. Even in heart-opening poses, the back body must engage to safely lift the front body. Without that support, openness collapses.
This final week of our February arc explores the often-overlooked truth that healthy love, like healthy heart openers, requires structure. Boundaries are not walls; they are clarity. They are the energetic container that allows love to circulate without depletion. They protect what is sacred. They prevent resentment and create safety.
On the mat, this may show up as:
Off the mat, boundaries of the heart might look like:
The Sanskrit concept of ahimsa (non-harming) applies inward as much as outward. If opening the heart leads to exhaustion, resentment, or self-betrayal, something is out of alignment.
A heart with boundaries is not closed. It is discerning. It is strong enough to remain open without losing itself.
As February closes, consider:
Balance plays a part in every yoga practice. The inhale expands; the exhale contracts. The spine arches and then rounds. We stretch one side, then the other. Strength supports flexibility. Even in heart-opening poses, the back body must engage to safely lift the front body. Without that support, openness collapses.
This final week of our February arc explores the often-overlooked truth that healthy love, like healthy heart openers, requires structure. Boundaries are not walls; they are clarity. They are the energetic container that allows love to circulate without depletion. They protect what is sacred. They prevent resentment and create safety.
On the mat, this may show up as:
- Engaging the legs in backbends to support the heart.
- Embracing the moments of rest as well as moments of movement.
- Choosing the variation and depth of a pose that feels sustainable and safe. Or choosing an alternative pose altogether.
- Recognizing, pausing, and modifying when sensation becomes strain.
Off the mat, boundaries of the heart might look like:
- Saying no without apology.
- Resting without guilt.
- Speaking truth with kindness.
- Offering compassion to others, but also yourself.
The Sanskrit concept of ahimsa (non-harming) applies inward as much as outward. If opening the heart leads to exhaustion, resentment, or self-betrayal, something is out of alignment.
A heart with boundaries is not closed. It is discerning. It is strong enough to remain open without losing itself.
As February closes, consider:
- Where do I overextend?
- Where do I overprotect?
- What would balanced openness feel like in my body?
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